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“Good People” was a saying in the 60’s that became an iconic expression of identifying like-minded people. To recognize someone as such meant that they were part of your tribe. Interesting how things evolve. It is a case of the whole being more than the sum of its parts. Taken individually, or out of context, those two words do not carry the impact they do once they were elevated to idiom status. “Do your best” the cub scout motto is another example of how words carry power.  They can start a momentum propeling people forward.

I think anyone who spends time with children knows they are very sensitive to words and body language. Some of my littlest art students shine when it’s time for art, while others wilt. Adult students remember teachers from their distant past who delivered an ill considered or unkind message about their art. My seventh grade teacher was very instrumental in my pursuit of art. She told my parents in my presence; “Moira Is An Artist”.

Sometimes life can get you down. It seems to be a natural tendency to dwell on disappointment, forgetting momentarily at least, accomplishments and positive outcomes. I recently participated in a plein air painting event. There were many accomplished artists participating. One man sold several of his pieces and received a second place award, but he was disappointed. Best of Show was what he had coveted. Disappointment is a strong emotion. It is something with which I often wrestle; how to transform disappointment into an ingredient for growth. Strengthening your inner core seems to be a constant adventure.

Words and phrases can be turned around to create a whole different connotation. Instead of “I lost the race”, I could say “ I got to run through beautiful country with world class runner.” Someone I know with Post Tramatic Stress Disorder says, “I get to have PTSD.” All experience contributes to the whole human being. People are more than the sum of each experience.